About ILYM

ILYM is a spiritual community of Quakers, also known as the Religious Society of Friends. Though the individuals in this community attend some 21 affiliated local Meetings across four states, each summer the Meeting gathers in a retreat near McNabb, Illinois to worship together and to conduct the business of the community. This business includes issues related to lay ministry, religious education, the practice of faith, volunteer service, public witness, publications, Meetinghouse site improvement, and finances. The ILYM Meetinghouse is also the worship site for Clear Creek Friends, as well as for workshops, retreats and committee meetings.



Spring Continuing Committee

Sat, 03/05/2016 - 9:30am

The Spring Continuing Committee will be held Saturday, March 5 and be hosted by St. Louis Monthly Meeting. Minutes from the Fall 2015 Continuing Committee have been posted at

The Spring Continuing Committee will be held on Saturday, March 5 at St. Louis Monthly Meeting (1001 Park Ave., St. Louis, MO 63104). Fellowship with coffee and snacks will be ready at 9:30 a.m. Settling into Worship to seek Divine Guidance for business at hand will begin at 10:00 a.m.  St. Louis Meeting Friends will provide lunch. There will be a basket for contributions to cover the modest costs of the meal. The meeting usually concludes between 4:00 and 5:00 p.m.

Reports and other advance documents will be posted on the ILYM website  by February 26 (ilym.org/ContinuingCommittee). Please try to read the reports ahead of time and bring your own print or electronic copies if you will need them.  A few print copies of these documents will be available at Continuing Committee.  If you know folks in your meeting who are expecting to attend and are without e-mail or web access, please share these documents with them.

Continuing Committee is open to all who have concern about the work of ILYM. Each person’s presence (whether delegated or not) will enrich the meeting’s deliberations.



2016 Annual Sessions

Nurturing the Seed

2016 Annual Sessions will be held June 22-26 on the ILYM campus in McNabb, Illinois.

The theme will be “Nurturing the Seed” and focuses on how we plant and nourish the spiritual seeds of faith, experience, and action within others, and ourselves whether it be our wee Friends or most wise.

Workshops are being sought related to the theme. Innovative, imaginative, and intergenerational workshops are encouraged. Proposals for additional topics are also welcomed. Workshops will be held on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, 2:30-3:45 p.m. afternoon. Please download and fill out the workshop proposal form, which should be submitted by Sunday, March 13. Return information is on the form. Download workshop proposal form.



Among Friends Winter 2016


We Will Grow: Learning from Our Younger Friends

Jesus Christ said, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3). That is a show stopper all right—but essentially a message of hope and guidance. What is it about a child that is so vitally important to our spirituality, even our salvation?

How can Quakers respond to this call and recognize, honor and nurture the Light in our youngest Friends? I see this query as crucial to opening a way, not only to better practices with children but to increased depth in our faith.

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No Fixing

I am always tempted. Tempted to fix, save, advise. Someone says some-thing to me and I wonder, what is that person really saying underneath what she is saying? Is that person saying, I need you to fix this? Probably not. So why should advice come out? And yet it does.

Someone in my meeting sent me some queries with an open-ended request, what do you think? Well, it depends. My usual reaction is to think the situation depends on me; I have to fix/save/advise. What would happen if those responses were unnecessary? If I were only being asked to listen because someone needed to be heard?

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Caring for People and the Earth as Climate Change Progresses

In June of 2015, Pope Francis released his enclyclical Laudato Si: On the Care of Our Common Home, calling all people to embrace the moral and spiritual implications of human impacts on the earth. The Illinois Yearly Meeting Environmental Concerns Committee (ECC) is heartened by the attention and weight Francis statements bring to concerns we have long held. The ECC committee welcomes his invitation to all humanity for a dialogue on the care of our common home.

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Mandala, Cages, and Readings


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What the Grandmothers and Grandfathers are Saying

An ancient Hindu tale, much older than time, tells the story of Indra’s net which is said to contain all elements of existence. At each point of connection in the web there is a jeweled node that mirrors everything else in Indra’s net. If you have ever have had the experience of seeing your own reflection in a mirror with another mirror behind it, you will see this infinity of connection. While attending the Parliament of the Worlds Religions in Salt Lake City recently, I heard many grandmothers and grandfathers speaking with one voice. They were the jewels offering reflections of our world in a web of mutual wisdom.

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Queries on Membership (Part 1 of 2)

  • How does meeting for worship speak to your condition?
  • What drew you to begin attending Friends Meeting?
  • What do you consider to be central to Quakerism?
  • Are there any features of Quakerism with which you have reservations or concerns?
  • What changes have you made in your life as a result of your association with Quakers?

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2015 Minute Book On-line

The 2015 ILYM Minute Book is now available on line for viewing and downloading at ILYM.org/MinuteBooks. Print copies will be distributed at Fall Continuing Committee.



New Website

Welcome to the new ILYM website. We are transitioning from the old site.  Content from the old site can be accessed at http://www.ilym.org/tiki-index.php.





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