Alternatives to Violence Project: Memphis Street Academy Middle School

It happened by word of mouth. Stacey Cruise, of the American-Paradigm Charter School and new leader of a failed Philadelphia middle school struggling with violence and abysmal reading scores, happened to hear about Alternatives to Violence Project. The Delaware Valley AVP Council was offering a summer series of workshops in the city’s most drug infested neighborhood. Dr. Cruise wanted to hear more. It was a hot August day when four AVP facilitators, Confident Carolyn Schodt, Always Adam Mitchell, Reasonable Ronald Barnes and Idealistic Irv Friedlander paid a visit with the school staff. We shared personally and powerfully, grateful to be able to show the Blaze Nowara DVD What is Violence?” And things happened fast.

On August 23, 2012, the invitation came: to do an AVP BASIC Workshop for the entire staff (80!) of the new Memphis Street Academy Middle School, on September 5 – 7, 2012.

Confident Carolyn said, “Yes, we can!” and started emailing up and down the East Coast. The most phenomenal response took place! By Monday morning August 27, twenty facilitators had signed up, ready to travel from Massachusetts, New Jersey, Maryland, District of Columbia, and Virginia, to augment the local team. People heard and responded to the excitement of the challenging opportunity to work with an entire middle school staff.

Chestnut Hill Friends Meeting afforded a place for team building the day before the workshop, and for meals each night. Friends provided home hospitality. The school covered the expenses.

The school building was a chaotic job site of work in progress with painters working feverishly to complete the work and furniture arriving for assembly. We had six classrooms available for the six workshops. The participants were teachers, hall monitors, administrators and support staff. All were newly hired for a completely fresh start of this new American-Paradigm Charter School, the Memphis Street Academy. This meant the school staff had not worked together and teachers were anxious to get their lessons plans finalized and their rooms set up. School has going to open September 11, 2012, and they were being “invited” to participate in AVP. There were no functioning telephones, copy machines or food service.

We observed our principle of “volunteers only” in the breach. The staff were expecting “another Inservice” and were surprised by the lack of handouts and the emphasis on the personal experience. By the end of the first day, we had mixed reviews. The participants were quick, and wanted us to pick up the pace. Over dinner the first night, facilitators reflected together and thought about balancing picking up the pace and the need to slow down, to go deeper. By the end of the second day, we “had them,” and by the third , it was “over the top.”
We learned a lot, and so did they. We asked them to rate us on a ten-point scale, and over half gave us “10 out of 10.” The overall average was 9.1 Participants gave us rave reviews, whether we were an exceptionally experienced team or not. Trust the Process!! We learned that what we have to offer is extremely useful to new schools getting started and wanting to create a culture of community, respect and care.

At this point, we are preparing to offer monthly workshops on Saturdays for staff from the school to attend, volunteers only. The vision is that a facilitating team will be developed, and that in time, students will become co-facilitators. But, what AVP has to offer most immediately is preparing the adults with AVP: the staff, the administrators, the parents, the neighbors. The children will then be immersed in a culture of community where the “risky business” of learning and growing may be accomplished.

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Alternatives to Violence Project (AVP) Maryland

Guatemalan Julio Cochoy

The following was written by a Guatemalan man, Julio Cochoy, after participating in a trauma healing workshop. Julio is an indigenous man who was 13 when Guatemalan Army soldiers occupied his town, Utitlan, terrorizing the residents. His uncle was killed brutally by the soldiers, and the family (or at least the boys) stayed inside their house for a year, afraid they would meet the same fate. His first book, “Voces Rompiendo el Silencio de Utatlan” (Voices Breaking the Silence of Utatlan), includes testimonies from 36 families from the town. He’s now working on his second book, My Journey from Hate to Hope.

Tears
Today you came to me

I felt you in the warmth of my tears
your wrinkled face laughed with me
I felt again your energy
You are not physically present
but you are close to my soul
you live in my mind
you remain in my heart

The injustice of your death
no longer hurts me
because in the memory of my people
you live on
You live in the voice of your family
you live in the minds of your grandchildren
Dear Uncle, today I rediscovered you
in eternity

©Julio Cochoy September 11 2012

Quaker Peacemakers Project: Sandra Tamari

20120922-181749.jpg Sandra Tamari is a member of the St. Louis Religious Society of Friends and currently resides in Glen Carbon, Illinois. Born in Jacksonville, Florida to Palestinian immigrants, Sandra is married to Steve Tamari, mother to two school-age children, and works as an admissions advisor to international students at Southern Illinois University Edwardsville.

Click the play button below to hear Sandra’s reflections on peacemaking.

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The Peace Resources Committee interviewed Sandra in front of a live participatory audience at the 2012 Annual Sessions of Illinois Yearly Meeting. Listen in to hear her reflections on being a peacemaker, feeling discouraged, the seeds of peace that lead her on this path, the security in life that comes from being raised with love, dealing with the isolation of detainment while in Israeli detention, life lessons from rocker Patti Smith, what the perpetual state of war today means for peacemaking, the role of participation and representation, raising children, and keeping hope.

Download Audio: QuakerPeacemakers_Tamari

Click here to learn more about the Quaker Peacemakers Archive Project where you can nominate Friends in Illinois Yearly Meeting you think should be included in this effort. The project aims to compile and preserve an oral history of Friends whose contributions to peace building offer wonderful opportunities for reflection. As Friends tell their stories in their own words, these recordings will capture and preserve unique and inspired personal acts and thoughts which enrich our Yearly Meeting.

Music: “The Big Ship” by Brian Eno (Another Green World, 1975)

America By The Numbers: Clarkston Georgia

This Georgia town is the current home to QVS volunteer, Justin Leverett, where he is assigned as a communication specialist to a non-profit agency. Clarkston, Georgia is being called one of the most diverse communities in America with residents from over 40 countries speaking over 60 different languages:

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With animation and a cinematic lens, “America By The Numbers: Clarkston Georgia” presents Maria Hinojosa’s exploration of the lessons that can be learned from our newest Americans about democracy and getting along.

Click here to learn more about the project and PBS broadcast times near you.

Making a Declaration of Commitment to our Indigenous People

When I was a young teen my family moved to Kansas where I was raised in Penn Valley Monthly Meeting in Kansas City, MO. There Friends Echo and Karin were important elders for me and my sisters – not because of age, mind you, but because of their willingness to explore life with us & offer guidance as they were led.  Today I received this note from Karin:

Greetings,

I have just signed the Declaration of Commitment, a really beautiful initiative to creating healing and partnership with indigenous peoples.

It’s been created by respected evolutionary leaders and offers us an opportunity to make a public commitment to being part of the solution moving forward.

I hope you’ll join me in signing and spreading this important Declaration!

Just click here: http://www.declarationofcommitment.com

I’m sure she forwarded it to F/friends across the country, and I hope many follow the link to explore this new initiative. I am grateful to still be in her network and for her sharing this opportunity; in upholding the pledge I am promoting the conversation here.

At the site I found a poetic message outlining apology, responsibility, reconciliation and collaboration as next steps. And I pledged my commitment to these ideals. Might you be led to learn more? From the Declaration:

Humanity faces a time in our evolving story when we must harvest our deepest collective wisdom in order to survive and even thrive as a healthy, peaceful and sustainable planetary civilization.

In the course of humanity’s journey we have many great achievements to celebrate and honor but we have to acknowledge what has been misguided, damaging to each other and harmful to all life. It is time for healing and a new beginning.

The Forgiveness Project: “The Line Dividing Good and Evil”

The Forgiveness Project is a UK based charity that uses storytelling to explore how ideas around forgiveness, reconciliation and conflict resolution can be used to impact positively on people’s lives, through the personal testimonies of both victims and perpetrators of crime and violence.

Dr. Gwen Adshead, forensic psychotherapist at Broadmoor High Security Hospital, delivered the keynote speech at the Third Annual Lecture in front of a sell-out audience at the Royal Geographical Society in London.

Click here to view the address & explore The Forgiveness Project website.

Dr. Adshead was supported on stage by three contributors who shared some of their own personal narratives: Marian Partington whose sister was murdered by Fred and Rosemary West; Erwin James, the Guardian columnist who served 20 years of a life sentence in prison; and Kemal Pervanic, survivor of the notorious Omarska concentration camp in Bosnia. The address was given July 3, 2012.

 

Travel to Colombia with Fellowship of Reconciliation

From Fellowship of Reconciliation –

For almost a century, the Fellowship of Reconciliation has worked creatively and courageously around the world to strengthen nonviolent resistance to militarism and oppression. Continuing this legacy, for the past decade FOR has sponsored a human rights accompaniment program in Colombia.

Using a dynamic combination of physical presence and political work, FOR’s peace team in Colombia protects Colombians committed to peace — often targeted in the 40-year-old armed conflict — who believe another world is possible and are building alternative economies, resisting forced displacement, and defending human rights.

Join us in Colombia!

You can be a part of our peace team. Joining our accompaniment team is an unique opportunity for people who care about peace and social justice and are interested in working abroad, but are seeking something beyond teaching English, doing mission work, or working on development projects like schools or medical clinics.

If you would like to become part of FOR’s team of accompaniers in Colombia, please apply by September 28. The next volunteer training will be held from December 14 to 19, 2012 in Nyack, New York, for service beginning as early as January 2013.

You can also read more about FOR’s work in Colombia and the role of volunteers, watch a short video of reflections from past FOR volunteers, or read blogs from current and past volunteers.

Please visit FOR’s Colombia Peace Accompaniment page to apply.

Five Specific Requests, outlined by Steve Tamari

Sandra Tamari’s husband, Steve, recently wrote about Sandra’s experience and its aftermath, following a trip in May where she was refused entry at Israel’s Ben Gurion airport and deported. For Steve, the most unexpected part of the experience was what happened after Sandra returned to the US.

From the piece he titled: “US missing in action as Israel targets Palestinian-Americans” Steve writes:

Sandra’s experience and the outcry that followed made this an opportune moment to act. With assistance from various activist networks, our petition drive secured enough support within a short time to get us an audience with State Department officials on June 26.

We had five specific requests for the State Department officials: to treat Palestinian-Americans in Israel as they would any other US citizen; to raise this issue with Israeli counterparts; to examine the legality of this all-too-common scenario in light of the aforementioned 1954 Treaty; and to inquire whether US embassy or consular officials have any records related to the numbers of Palestinian-Americans denied entry to Israel and areas under its control.

We also petitioned the State Department to protest Israeli plans to destroy the Palestinian village of Susiya, the most recent example of 65 years of Israeli whole-scale ethnic cleansing.

Our exchange with the State Department demonstrated once again our government’s inability to guarantee basic assistance to Palestinian-Americans at Israeli ports of entry.

The officials expressed sympathy, and acknowledged that US officials have repeatedly raised such concerns with their Israeli Foreign Ministry counterparts to no avail. But they could offer little more than a verbal promise to relate our concerns to higher-ups.

I am not holding my breath. The State Department has a 30-year record of offering no effective assistance to its citizens in this regard. Why should we expect anything different this time around?

That said, Sandra’s case solidified my optimism in the citizenry’s basic decency and in the power of grassroots organizing and hard-nosed questioning.

Click here to read the entire piece: “US missing in action as Israel targets Palestinian-Americans” from Ma’an News Agency (updated 7/14/12).

2013 AGLI Workcamp Opportunity

Mutaho, Burundi
Saturday, June 22 to Saturday, July 26, 2013

Host Partner: REMA – is a group of about 50 women (Hutu, Tutsi, and Twa) from Mutaho Friends Church led by Pastor Sara Gakobwa. The name, REMA, means “be comforted, do not get discouraged.” To learn more, check out After the Guns Stopped (see page 23) published here.

Location: Mutaho, Burundi – Northeast of Bujumbura near Gitega – the second largest city in Burundi

Objective: The Workcamp Peace Team will build guest rooms for the Mutaho Women’s Group Center.

Housing: Workcampers will stay with local host families.

Searching for a peacemaker: Jane Addams

Last winter Hull House shut its doors.

The closing of Jane Addams’ experiment in peacemaking haunts my thoughts, even while attending to the immediate issues of supermax prisons and of drones dropping from the skies on unsuspecting families.  Little public notice seems to have been given this closing.  Are we forgetting Jane Addams?  Somehow, I am feeling that remembering our peacemakers, not just Addams but so many others in our communities, is vital to our civic lives.  Addams teaches what it means to live the life of a peacemaker.

One time, she taught me by her works as a builder of institutions and a doer of good deeds.  Twenty Years at Hull House remains a classic in our peacemaking tradition.  In time I have found myself attending to the less pronounced, often illusive, facets of her interior life where I think I glimpse meanings in her calling as peacemaker.   Her connections with Quakers, while seemingly incidental, are revealing.  Although her father forsook the Quaker meeting for the Presbyterian church and she kept her father’s faith, Jane felt an affinity with Friends in particular by way of the Fellowship of Reconciliation.  And yet on reflection she chose not to become a Quaker.  This Quaker connection, however tenuous it may seem, points to common sensibilities that guide the lives of peacemakers no matter their specific faith affiliation.

Respectful listening, patient reflection, and quiet courage—these habits of mind shaped her calling.  While guided by her beloved father’s principle of service, she came to wonder whether the truths she had learned from a privileged, Protestant, and Anglo-Saxon childhood could guide her work with poor, Eastern-European, and Catholic immigrants.  Or could those inherited verities, for example the explanation for poverty’s causes, carry the patronizing attitudes of the missionary?  As she listened to her new neighbors, she turned inward.  Sometimes the work was difficult.  While bearing witness against racial violence, she listened to painful lessons from her associates who reminded her that she too harbored racist attitudes similar to those that sparked the lyncher.   Democracy, she came to see, was something larger than legal forms guaranteeing the citizen’s rights.  It lay in the ability to listen to others, to reflect, and to realize that the truths passed down from past generations could easily become impediments to service in the present.  This quiet habit of listening, of opening oneself to others’ voices, and of reflection led Addams through long years of evolution.

As I read Newer Ideals of Peace, I discover a quiet courage to challenge the conventional and to risk the unconventional.  Writing at midcourse in her thinking, she was reconsidering time honored truths and unquestioned patterns of authority.  Reverence for the Founding Fathers and their constitution might blind oneself to the changing times and to needs once unimagined.  Prescriptive truths, as if written in stone, work to prevent the democracy from attending to different voices in the neighborhood.   Truth is unfolding.   Each generation finds it in the changing contexts of community life.  Militarism, she speculated, becomes more than the application of organized force but a manifestation of pervasive authoritarian impulses deeply embedded in the culture.  Militarism, she ventured to propose, included habits of mind that twisted relations with neighbors as well as with peoples abroad.  As she wrote, she sometimes stumbled in her effort to fashion new vocabularies to guide her thinking.  Yet she continued and in her steadfast, patient, spiritual quest demonstrated a remarkable and exemplary resolve and courage.  Later in life, as she watched the flapper generation of the 1920s, she felt bewildered, even troubled.  But she advised her associates to attend to young people and to beware imposing verities on them lest creative thought be stifled.

And so we return to Addams and the Quakers.   The affinity seems to run deeper than her public work against militarism.  It reveals itself in habits of  listening and reflection, of attending to truth emerging from the present, and of reconsidering prescriptions inherited by generations past.  Let me return to what seems contradiction: her affinity with the Society of Friends and her hesitancy to join that circle.   Clearness came to her when she was asked how public association with Quakers might affect her relationship with her neighbors—Catholic, Jew, Eastern Orthodox—in the Hull House community.  Would she create distances and stifle her ability to speak with them?

And so I ask myself: how do we understand peacemaking?  Is the peacemaker identified by the deeds well done?   A resume such as of Jane Addams would meet that standard.   Founder of Hull House, charter member of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, outspoken opponent of the First World War, leading light in the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom—her works earned her a worldwide reputation in the peace community.  Her persistence is also worthy of recognition.   While vilified for resistance to American entrance into the Great War and branded “the most dangerous woman in America,” she continued steadfast, though sometimes disheartened, to her calling.

But what if she had not done these deeds?   Is her inner quest for understanding the way to peace worthy of notice?  With this question I find myself turning to Rufus Jones and his reflections on the spiritual life.  Sometimes, he counseled, we are tempted to look to spiritual heroics, inspiring moments, for example and guidance.   Yet by so doing we overlook the quiet searchers.  We cannot all be Saul on the Road to Damascus.  Nor can many of us be a George Fox atop Pendle Hill.   Those dazzling moments may distract us from attending to the less visible, less eye catching, workers for peace.  And so who is the peacemaker?   To paraphrase William James who deeply admired Addams’ Newer Ideals and who inspired Jones’ writing we need to be alert to the varieties of the peacemaking experience.

Finally–remembering seems important for peacemaking.  This is why I am concerned that Jane Addams may be forgotten, even by today’s workers for peace.   Peacemaking can be lonely work, as Addams felt.   Forgetting can cut the young witness for peace adrift in time without a sense of an anchoring tradition and without awareness of others who endured and thereby teach and invigorate by example.  To be aware of a tradition of people who persevered and, perhaps most important, lived fulfilled lives may be essential to maintaining that spirit.   The drones will continue to kill, prisoners in our midst will be mistreated.  And continuing to keep courage may come, in part, from stopping to remember.